The r/GetSuave Codex

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The topic of GetSuave is widespread, pertaining to building a naturally attractive, confident, fun, stylish lifestyle - think James Bond but without all the bullets.

Introduction

The topic of GetSuave is widespread, pertaining to building a naturally attractive, confident, fun, stylish lifestyle - think James Bond but without all the bullets.

r/GetSuave was a subreddit founded in 2015 to help men (and women!) build the kind of lives they wanted to live. Its founder, u/champagnehouse, helped countless men with his advice, before mysteriously disappearing off the internet, followed by his triumphal return.

When r/GetSuave closed its doors in 2020, the nearly 20k members and countless more lurkers lost access to the collected wisdom of u/champagnehouse. This Codex is a backup of the most important posts from the sub, preserved by one of the original maintainers.

This is still very much a work in progress, as posts are saved, categorized, and republished.

How Do I Start?

You can start with the old subreddit rules to get a feel for what this place is (and isn’t). Once you’ve familiarized yourself, read through the most essential articles below, organized into a rough order.

The Codex


Inner Confidence Series

Building a Suave Mindset

Attracting Beautiful Women


Looks and Style


Social Hobbies (or, be a guy worth knowing)

Party Hosting 101


What To Do When…


Lifestyle Resources


Inspiration

Reading List


Finally…